Leafy Highgate
Yesterday. . .
After some breakfast and bossa nova with Shirley Bassey and the Propellerheads and their reinvention of the Bond classic ‘Goldfinger’, Kimber and I got down to some serious brainstorming around the title of the KC book. We spent an age talking about KC and what it means to us.
We pushed around our understanding of what the book might be about. Themes around opposites emerged as likely contenders but nothing quite stuck or fired me up. Maybe it should be something dead simple and straight forward like; King Crimson; A Users Guide.
The best idea of the day came from Kimber;
BOOOOK
1.The sound of 379 pages not quite making sense at the same time.
2. The sound of 379 people opening a book almost simultaneously
Oh well, I guess you had to be there. . .
Last night . . .
We took an early evening stroll through the leafy highways, byways, handbags and gladrags which make up the streets of Kimber’s manor eventually ending up at Bengal Berties. A couple of beers and a Lamb special later I was a happy lad. Our talk meandered away from worthy topics into a trivia-fest of TV programmes we watched when we were lads;
Adam Adamant
The Champions
The Avengers
UFO
Do Not Adjust Your Set
Man In A Suitcase
Burke’s Law
Randall & Hopkirk (Deceased)
Supercar
Stingray
Fireball XL5
Captain Scarlet
Dr. Who
Well you get the idea. What was interesting was the degree to which the female characters in the Gerry Anderson puppet series used to fuel my pre-pubescent imaginations and more particularly, my loins. You’ve only got to mention Destiny, Marina, Atlanta and Venus and all the blood drains from my head and I black out.
Kimber of course feels superior because his black-outs were caused by Champions heroine Alexandra Bastedo. She used to do it for me as well but on reflection this might be because her acting was so wooden.
Well, it’s come to this - admitting in public to being given a woodie by er. . .a lump of wood.
As you can see it was a deeply cultural kind of night and what better way to round it off by watching The World Is Not Enough which I’m led to believe was the most recent James Bond movie. I really enjoyed the thing and it might well be the best Bond movie since Thunderball.
Sometime after midnight Debbie rang and we caught up with the news and gossip. She sounded prickly and irritable which might have been something to do with our (or more accurately, her) house-guest. Or not.
So then it was off to bed and dreams involving a spokeshave or two.
This morning. . .
Talked to my mother who tells me that her brother (my Uncle Tom) had passed away. He’d been diagnosed with cancer of the liver a couple of weeks ago and thankfully he’s not had too long to linger. She was of course very upset but understands that the swiftness of his passing was really a blessing.
I remember seeing my Gran waste away in a hospital bed for three months several years ago. In her heyday, my Gran was a severe and daunting matriarch who ruled the family with a rod of iron and then when she was 95 she had a heart attack.
Instead of felling her there and then, she was taken into hospital where she suffered from horrendous bed sores, professional indifference and eventually she was lost in an insidious maze of dementia and drool. Her constitution was such that she hung around for weeks not knowing where she was or who we were.
The best we could do was just be there. She was a slip of her former self in every respect and it was painful for us to see her so diminished and fragile. In the hours before her death, we sat with her, stroking her hair and trying to provide some element of contact and connection to where ever she was inside.
At one point not long before she went, the fog seemed to clear and in a few moments of calm clarity, she talked of George, her husband who had died in 1965 and was sorry that he’d been waiting for so long.
Her last words were "Sweet Jesus take me home" and she was gone and we all cried. Our tears were of grief but also of relief that she’d managed to eventually escape from the half-husk that wasn’t quite her anymore